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Tombstone symbols are found in many cemeterys, though less frequent than you might think.
Some are used for the wrong reasons or in extreme cases, sometimes for no reason at all.
Many times a headstone is chosen by a grieving family or widow soon after the death of a loved one.
Possibly chosen at random off the lot of a nearby monument maker.
The result is often a stone etched with a picturesque carving such as flowers or religious symbols.
This is not to say that these things aren't important, or do not convey a how a person was loved.
But they usually show how the survivor felt, rather than how the deceased lived his life.
It's difficult to accurately measure how strongly a person felt about the symbols on their grave.
They are for the most part, usually chosen by the survivors of the deceased.
This may be reason enough to go shopping before one is needed!
The outing needn't be a morbid or sad endeavor for anyone involved.
Use it as a learning expierience in to further discuss your wishes with those around you is a fine start!
Plan a lunch or dinner afterward so the oportunity is still open for you to discuss the matters privately.
Whether a symbol is small or large is related to many factors, such as cost, prestiege, grief, and more.
Some may feel the need to spend a lot marking a grave, or want a large display for particular reasons.
Others may wish a very small and private marker with minimal info on it.
People grieve in different many ways.
In any case, this page can offer some insight into various symbols used to convey larger meanings.
Take for instance, a pair of hands clasped or shaking.
It is thought to mean an earthly parting of two with the hope of meeting again in the afterlife.
Though some may wish to express it with words, it's a way to symbolize the message more concisely.
Others may opt to use initials or abreviations in lieu of symbols when possible.
It's important to note that some symbols are very precise in design while others are generalized.
For instance, animals may symbolize strength, peace, etc. but be carved differently on headstones.
The exception being if it is part of a fellowships known design.
This page is not designed to help anyone decide between message styles.
It is to help the reader understand the meanings of some of the symbols seen during cemetery visits.
They may have other meanings as well. For those of particular importance, further research is needed.
Many signs may have a seperate personal meanings between the deceased and loved one.
They may be totally oblivious to the customary meanings.
General Picture |
Symbol/Name |
Taken As Meaning |
Apples |
Apples |
Represent salvation. |
Century Plant |
Century Plant |
Symbol of immortality and everlasting life. |
Calla Lily |
Flower |
Symbolizes beauty. |
Daisy |
Flower |
Symbolizes innocence, especially the young. |
Easter Lily |
Flower |
Symbolize purity and chastity. |
Rose |
Flower |
Symbol for beauty and deepest love. |
Oak Leaf |
Leaves |
Symbol of a long life. |
Wheat Sheaves |
Wheat Sheaves |
Symbol denoting abundance in life. |
Broken Bud or Branch |
Broken Bud or Branch |
Someone who died an untimely or premature death. |
Butterfly |
Butterfly |
Symbolizes the resurrection. |
| Dog |
Represents loyalty, watchfulness and vigilance. |
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| Hummingbird |
Represents a child |
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| Lamb |
Represents a child |
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Lamb with Flag |
Agnus Dei |
The Lamb Of God |
| Lion |
The lion symbolizes strength, self- |
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| Owl |
Wisdom |
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| Ox |
Also a symbol of patience and strength. |
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| Rabbit |
The rabbit symbol is strongly tied to the cycle of life, fertility, death, and resurrection. |
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| Alpha and Omega |
The first and last letters of the Greek alphabet. |
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Anchor |
Anchor |
Symbol of hope for an eternal life. |
Angel Weeping |
Angel- |
Symbolizes much grief of an untimely death |
Angel Flying |
Angel- |
An angel with open wings represents the flight of a soul to heaven. |
Angel with Sword |
Angel- |
An angel with a sword depicts the Archangel Michael. |
Angel with Trumpet |
Angel- |
An angel with one (or two) trumpets is symbolic of the day of judgement. |
Angel carrying a departed soul |
Angel- |
Carrying the souls of the deceased to heaven |
Cross with Loop At Top |
Ankh |
The Egyption symbol for eternal life. |
Anvil |
Anvil |
Symbolizes creation of the universe. |
Arch |
Arch |
The passage or way to heaven. |
Arrow with Hand |
Arrow |
Symbolizes the individuals mortality and martyrdom. |
Beehive |
Beehive |
Symbolizing human industry, faith, education and domestic virtues. |
Broken Wheel |
Broken Wheel |
Symbolizes the end of a life. |
Broken Chain |
Broken Chain |
Symbolizes a loss in the family ties with the person represented as a link. |
Circle |
Circle |
Symbolizing eternal life - |
Cornucopia |
Cornucopia |
The "Horn of Plenty" is Symbolic of an abundant, fruitful life. |
Urn |
Urn |
The ancient symbol for death. |